Him: “Life is beating me up. I don’t know what to do. Maybe I’ll just take myself out. All is dust in the wind.”
Her: “He’s vulnerable. Now is the time to eject!”
Woman filed protection order days before apparent murder-suicide
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by UpNorthLive Newsroom, 12 July 2022
Spoiler: that’s not all she filed!
ROSCOMMON COUNTY, Mich., (WPBN/WGTU) . In an apparent murder-suicide case that claimed four lives on Sunday, court documents show one of the victims, Tirany Savage, filed for protection from her husband Eugene days before her death.
On June 24, Tirany filed for a personal protection order against Eugene in the 34th Circuit Court.
Tirany wrote this note in the protection request:
.He has mental health issues and recently purchased a firearm and that is concerning to me. He keeps saying he is going to blow his brains out and I do not want my safety or my son’s safety in jeopardy..
A perfect time to sic the authorities on him! Nothing calms a man down like losing his son to his wife finking with the Gestapo.
A smarter wife would worry about her husband. I don’t know what Eugene’s problems were, but having an obliviously self-centered wife viewing him as a malfunctioning meal ticket surely didn’t help.
The personal protection order was denied by a judge who wrote this in the PPO document: .Insufficient evidence of a showing of immediate and irreparable injury, loss or damage.”
Good call. Being depressed and armed is not a crime.
“Petitioner can request a restraining order in divorce case..
WTF?! Bad call, judge! BAD!
On July 7, Tirany filed for divorce, just three days before her death.
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Deputies were dispatched to a home in Roscommon Township at 3:30 a.m. on Sunday, where they found four bodies.
Tirany Lee Savage, 35, Tirany’s son Dayton Cowdrey, 13, Tirany’s mother Kim Lynnette Ebright, 58, and Bo Eugene Savage, 35, were found dead at the home with apparent gun shot wounds, according to the Roscommon County Sheriff’s Office.
All the victims had known relationships and the incident is being investigated as a murder-suicide, according to investigators.
There are many ways that a wife can respond to a hurting husband. Initiating a divorce in order to complete the paperwork on a restraining order is even worse than “You don’t have the guts to pull that trigger”.
This is a clear murder-suicide… but there’s a case to be made that the wife is the perp. She doubled down against her husband instead of renewing her loyalty and keeping his home a peaceful refuge.
You cannot push a man off a cliff then blame gravity. “He was going to fall anyway!”
“Our thoughts and prayers go out to the many friends and family who have been devested by this loss,” Undersheriff Ben Lowe stated. “Roscommon County contains wonderful, close-knit communities who rally around those who are struggling and in need.”
Obviously not. Let’s have a look at those “communities”.
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Kim Scott is the executive director of River House, a non-profit that helps survivors of domestic violence and sexual abuse in Roscommon County.
Scott says cases like this have been more common in the last six months and the reason is unknown.
The reason is obvious to everybody with a twig & berries. Don’t kick me when I’m down. Why is this hard?
.One thing I will say for sure is we can’t say that intimate partner violence is because of stress financially or mental health issues or whatever else is going on,. Scott said. .Intimate partner violence is a result of power and control issues..
Textbook feminism: defining marital relationships as tools of coercion and manipulation. “How can I best extract what I deserve out of this relationship?” This speaks to the female temptation to consider her husband as a wallet & stepping stone rather than her better half. Also, projection.
There are consequences to handling your man as if he’s nothing but a replaceable meal ticket. For example, he might retaliate if you betray his trust when he’s vulnerable. That does NOT REPEAT NOT mean “betray him fast enough that he doesn’t get the chance to retaliate”:
Scott said victims need to know how to maneuver through the court system and River House and other organizations can help people through that process.
.When the individuals leaves, they are 75% more likely to be in a legal situation,. Scott said. .Because, obviously the way the power control dynamic works is the perpetrator is going to feel more of a loss of control whenever their victim leaves because they’re used to that dynamic..
.And so, they will push it to some of those extremes, threatening suicide, threatening homicide,. Scott said.
“Screw him fast because he’s going to feel desperate and out-of-control.”
Court documents also show that Tirany did have the right to request a hearing since the protection order was denied. It is unclear if she ever made that request.
Sure, that was Tirany’s mistake. She didn’t work the system as well as she needed to, in order to escape that “abuuusive” husband struggling with depression.
Scott says 1 in 3 people have been or are currently in an intimate partner violence relationship.
If you or someone you know need help, there are plenty of organizations to turn to, like [the man-hating] River House in Roscommon County and the [man-hating] Women’s Resource Center in Traverse City.
I [fixed it] for them.
The instinctive male reaction to treachery is to grab a rock and redefine the relationship of the traitor’s skull fragments. Why this is only starting to happen in marriages now instead of 40 years ago speaks to 1. how desperate men are to believe the best about women, and 2. how cruelly the legal system crushes his hopes & dreams.
Loyalty. Good luck finding it.
Proverbs 31:10 seems appropriate here.
A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.
Find a woman who will be loyal, even during the “for poorer” and “in sickness” phases? Yes they exist. But chances are against your princess being one of them, even if she is a Christian. Unfortunately.
Eve had previously been sinless, had only one command to obey, walked face-to-face with God, had a sinless husband, and lived in paradise. Should be easy to be loyal in such a situation, right?
Annnnnnnd we all know how that turned out.
Modern women, unfortunately, seldom learn to tame the lizard-brain. A husband’s vulnerability is seen primarily as a threat to the stability of her home and family; she feels insecure about it; and then she punishes the husband for “making” her feel bad and “threatening” her home. It doesn’t even stop there. Her conscience forces her to believe her husband is a villain because otherwise she wouldn’t be justified in treating him so badly.
The hard lesson for husbands today is to never reveal struggle or vulnerability in the home. Men need to share that sort of thing with their male friends instead.
From standpoint of the tsah-rah, it’s a win-win. Empowered Ones/State vex unempowered ones until unempowered ones resort to violence. The family is destroyed, one by one; sole blame fixes on the Toxic Male Abuser ‘n Oppressor Inc.
Empowered Ones/State point-and-shriek, MSM sites replicate and amplify, calling for more female empowerment (for safety of course) and male disempowerment. The latest VAWA or Feminist Jurisprudence Committee or Truth Ministry rolls out, that the bitch-pack baying might be stilled. But of course it never is. That well of vengeance has no bottom, and is always thirsty.
Ouroboric circle closes, the cogs and circuits whir and crackle with glee, and the cycle chugs into Endless Repeat mode. Very tidy! And Justice was done!
The hard lesson for husbands today is to never reveal struggle or vulnerability in the home. Men need to share that sort of thing with their male friends instead.
Show of hands, all you men out there: how many of you have even one close male friend in whom you can confide when the whe world is aligned against you, who has your back when the chips are down?
Anybody? … Back of the room? … Not one hand?
Anybody got a time machine?
”Show of hands, all you men out there: how many of you have even one close male friend in whom you can confide when the whe world is aligned against you, who has your back when the chips are down?”
Certainly NOT in most churchs today,FEERIKER!
Most men period will turn on other men anywhere,its just more likely now at churchs with ”concerned”(obeying ”mama”{as in ‘if mama ain’t happy nobody is’ without question like most preachers teach them) church-going men is all.
ALSO:”From standpoint of the tsah-rah, it.s a win-win. Empowered Ones/State vex unempowered ones until unempowered ones resort to violence. The family is destroyed, one by one; sole blame fixes on the Toxic Male Abuser .n Oppressor Inc.”YES vexes& hexes have increased ever-more in recent years,brother RAY.
” Consistent with the second hypothesis, the association found between unemployment and divorce is significantly stronger among men than among women, where the latter.s odds of divorce in a given month of separation are not affected by unemployment either before or during separation”
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6884006/#:~:text=Unemployment%2C%20especially%20among%20men%2C%20increases,lead%20to%20different%20divorce%20outcomes.
In other words, women will ditch their husbands if he loses his job, but men are generally supportive if a wife loses her job. Violent disruption of the social order as an effect of disruption of the family should come as no surprise.
I had one when my wife left. He spotted me the cash for the down payment to a good divorce lawyer. That’s a real friend.
I do. Took a lot of waiting and evaluating first, as usual.
Had to leave Ms. Amerika to do it. Hard to find what I require there.